i’m the older brother and he doesn’t have car, but he can use my dad’s car. Bro says that he prefers mine, but dad’s car is free all the time on weekends. My brother is not talking with me, because even when i’m not using the car, i don’t let him use. He always took my things without asking, like clothes, shoes and even food. But the worst thing is that even when i lend him something, he never take good care of it, when it is time to return my things, they are broke/scratched or dirty. The point is: he rlly likes my car, but sometimes i use it on weekends, or i simply want it on my garage if i need to use. He can use the other car every time he wants, but insists on arguing that i’m selfish, not considering that i always lend him anything (even knowing he doesn’t take good care), and he barely lend me smth (but i relief it cause he’s the younger). The main thing he can’t get is that my car is very important to me, and i take the best care of it, he doesn’t work, but my car is my first "big achievement". I know he really likes my car and wants to drive it, and i wonder if i should let him. I just want to make peace with him.