I’ve been working ao hard to buy my car (Mercedes C200 2023) i take care of it like it’s my kid. my brother (M19)asked to go out using my car i was okay at first, i mean if i were him I’d like to take my girl out in the Mercedes but after returning it many times with significantly less fuel i started giving him small remarques. last time, he returned it with a small scratch on the front bumper… this is where i lost my mind and stopped giving it to him.
AITA for doing that or I’m overreacting and need to give him more chances
I cannot say this enough….never lend your car to anyone. It’s a recipe for disaster. If your brother hits someone and kills them, who do you think is responsible? Is your brother insured under your insurance? If he causes bigger damage than a scratch, can he afford the cost of the repairs? Why would you put yourself at risk?
Just my opinion but I don’t think lending a car makes sense under any circumstances. Too many risks. Never any appreciation.
NTA – IF your brother hasn’t paid a penny for gas and didn’t directly tell you that he made a scratch.
NTA- you’re not obligated to lend a belongings that they don’t respect
NTA