I (15f) was at a sleepover this weekend. I’m decent friends with everyone there (15m, 15m, 16m) but it was the girl (16f) who was there who invited me. It was supposed to be a fun, normal thing. We have them regularly but I don’t always go. Watching movies, eating junk food, the normal stuff. Maybe that was the first problem, because I haven’t felt normal in a long time. Apparently that makes me the villain, which is why I’m here.
The host started complaining about his older sister, and suddenly I couldn’t breathe. I didn’t have a good relationship with my older brother but he moved away and cut off all contact recently and it’s been hard, things have gotten worse at home, and something about that just set me off. I ran off to the bathroom and slammed the door shut and I just cried in front of the mirror. I don’t know how long I was gone for, but soon they were knocking on the door. Someone yelled at me to come out and talk to them. I told them to fuck off.
When I did come out, the host called me dramatic. Everyone else crowded around me and started fussing over me and it just made me so angry. It turned into a whole thing with everyone arguing about what or who made me cry. I packed my stuff and walked home.
Now everyone is walking on eggshells around me and constantly pitying me, but also my girl friend said I’m not allowed to come back since I ruined the night and made everything awkward. I have nobody else to ask and my feelings are so confusing so I came here. AITA?
Edit: I forgot to mention that they won’t stop texting me too. Things like "you scared us" and "next time just tell us if you’re not up for hanging out." It’s really passive aggressive in tone. They’re blaming me for messing up their fun night.