I know what a lot of you will be thinking that I am the asshole off the bat. But I have talked to this girl in the past and we hit it off very well but we eventually stopped talking and after a while her and my friend got together but they eventually broke up not long ago and now me and her are starting to get close again FYI I never told my friend that we ever talked but I still feel wrong for talking to her again am I wrong
INFO: how long ago did they break up? Was it a bad break up? Is the friend over her? We need context to judge. Either way should talk to your friend first unless you want to lose said friend.
They broke up a few months ago
I never really asked about the breakup since he never brought it up
I would say he’s over her the relationship didn’t last very long and never got super serious
Then just mention it instead of blindsiding your friend. I think YWBTA if you don’t if this is actually a friend.
you’re NTA but she is. She just got out of that relationship “not long ago” and now she wants to homie hop. Nahhhhh don’t let a woman get between yalls friendship. Drop her and move onto the next
How long did they date for? Tbh, just talk to your friend. If they’re cool, it’s all good. If they are not and you still want to pursue it over your friendship. Then YTA
INFO: What was the relationship like between her and your friend, and what caused it to end? That’s really what determines whether it’s okay for you two to start talking/dating
I don’t know the exact reason but i think they just didn’t really get along and talk as much like he would tell me about how she would only over text or call instead of going to be with him at school or going out with him
depends how old you all are, how long the relationship lasted, & what the dynamic with your friend is like. under 16 yrs old and short relationship – nta. late teen/young adult and long relationship – yta. are you guys just talking or are you interested in a relationship w her?
We just older than 16 me and my friend are pretty good friends not like best friends close but we talk a good amount and do sports together there relationship ship was only a few months also I’ve know the girl for years where friends for a while kinda stopped talking then starting talking again but in a relationship way and i kinda am interested in a relationship with her like we get along so well
NTA, your friend doesn’t own her.