i have pent up feelings i never got to vent and get out and i have so much hate towards my ex cheating on me with her ex who is an abuser and heavily abused her, throughout our relationship, and she told everyone about how she hated him and what he did to her and said i was so much better, and yet preceded to cheat on me with him almost all our relationship and told him she’ll always love him on my birthday. it makes me so mad thinking about it, he is such an extremely awful person and they’re still friends to this day, and i made a post saying "guess the abuse never happened LOL" and i vented this on Twitter and my close friend saw it and called me fucked up for going so low and saying something so fucked up about my ex, because she was abused, and preceded to unfollow and block me on all social media. was i disclosing too much and being insensitive? are my feelings valid? AITA?
ESH. Your ex sucks for cheating, but making light of abuse is messed up regardless of how angry you are. Being hurt doesn’t give you a pass to mock someone’s trauma, even if they wronged you. Your feelings are valid but how you expressed them wasn’t.
everybody in your story sucks
Your feelings are valid but your ignorance isn’t
If you look at the cycle of abuse it’s not a surprise or shock that victims return to their abusers. Her returning to her relationship with him has nothingggggggg to do with you.
Also shady tweets aren’t venting especially when people know who you’re tweeting about. That’s not venting that’s talking shit
ESH bruh, why post it like that you’re being real immature, she cheated and she sucks for it but you replied to it by sharing it to the public which makes you scummy