I went out on a date with a girl in November, for context we were dating from October until December. We ended when she tried gaslighting me.
Anyway we went for food and the bill came to £80. She said how are we paying and I said I will get it, she said no, so I said we should split it then. She said no, she will pay. Fast forward to today. Shes just sent me a message on FB messenger (not whatsapp or text) saying she forgot to ask for my half of the food. It was 2 months ago.
I haven’t replied yet but am AITA if I tell her A. It was 2 months ago. B. She offered to pay.
Thanks.
Bahahahaha 😂
And by that I mean NTA!
NTA
Hahahahaha…absolutely NOT
NTA. You don’t get to seek reimbursement after the fact because a relationship doesn’t work out. Ignore and block.
NTA. She said, “no, i will pay.”
She doesn’t get to try retroactive collection just because you’ve broken up, lol.
NTA delete the message and move on.
She can’t come asking for payment 2 months after the fact. She’s trying to reach back out and that was the best way she could come up with.
I think shes trying to get back in touch too. Its done. I think she doesnt like it.
I’d ignore it and block her on FB.
NTA.
I’m guessing that she was disappointed that you didn’t insist more strongly on paying or at least splitting. But people need to learn not to play games like that. Open and honest communication always wins in the end.
You did nothing wrong here.
If you need reddit for this, you’re not old enough to be dating. Block and move on. nta
ignore her
NTA for not paying, but you may want to pay and think of it as the cost of her having no reason to contact you again. Could be worth every penny
NTA
It sounds like she needs a quick 40 bucks and is using this as an excuse.
NTA. What a wild thing to do.
Don’t even respond. At all.