Am i overreacting ?
Met my boyfriends boss today…
My bf M/30 his boss W/48 and me W/25 we been in a relationship 8 months and his boss has been his boss for 5 months
She ran out of gas and begged my bf to get a gas can and bring her some.
He said he couldn’t… we got back into town and she still needed help. I didn’t mind going at all but when we got there she asked who I was then procided to call my bf her best friend, and the only man at her work that would help. Then to which she procided to touch his shoulders and laugh … after he filled her tank up for her she said that’s again and said "lovvvvve youuu" to which he said love you too bro. Is it just me or is it rude to tell a coworkers gf that there boyfriend is your best friend when she hasn’t even know him for as long as we been together. Idk why I’m hurting over this but I feel like she was being rude and over steping . I’m not mad at my bf but I also wanna tell him how I feel about his weird boss. But idk if I’m crazy for that
NTA, but I think the “love you”s between boss and subordinate is the bigger issue here. However, if she’s his “best friend”, how come she didn’t know who you were??
NTA I think he’s filling up her tank in more ways than one, and if not soon will be. He clearly hasn’t established boundaries with her since she didn’t even know you existed and they say “I love you” to each other. Even as friends that’s crossing a line. I think I’d be mad at the bf for being a little too chummy with his boss. Since she is so attached to him, if he pulls away from her, is his job in jeopardy? Nothing good comes out of a situation like this. He’d be wise to set boundaries with her.
NTA – it’s all very strange and inappropriate for a business relationship
He said “Love you too bro” thats as friend zone as it gets.
He also refused the first time around.
Im inclined to say NAH but thats not exactly a professional relationship.
NTA. Oh wow. You’re only 8 months into this. If you two aren’t living together, say goodbye. This is a train wreck waiting to happen.
Go back to school
LoL What for? I read this and I don’t understand.
Is she hot?
Does your bf age backwards