this is a preemptive ask, partner was out all night with friends and kept going offline (no service) for 3 hours and we have a newborn, it was a pretty hectic time for me i can’t lie- stuff was missing and i was asking where he had put it. baby was reacting badly to a new food we gave him and was vomiting everywhere, up every 5 minutes for a soothe and i explained this to him and he still came home very late – aitah for wheeling the baby into the livingroom where he stumbled into last night, and taking a shower getting ready and going out leaving him no option but to handle baby care, for context he was out last weekend and weekend before and works so it’s the weekend that’s really my only baby free time, i feel like it’s a bit cheeky but hey, i might just do it if he’s hungover or not
As long as he wasn’t drunk when you left the baby in his care – NTA
no no, this is a morning after situation- baby and i were asleep when he came home
NTAH, but this lack of communication between you two is dangerous for your child; especially a newborn.
time to sit down and have a conversation about family time, friend time and alone time.
NTA, but there needs to be a convo about time out and communication while out
For the sake of the baby please work on your communication with each other. Is he the baby’s father? Him acting like that is ridiculous, especially with a kid at home. As a new father I can’t even imagine doing that or leaving my wife in the lurch like that. Sounds like he needs to grow up. Good luck.
NTA. You didn’t ambush him, you parented. He chose to be out all night, unreachable, knowing you have a newborn. Tagging him in when he got home is not revenge, it’s consequences. You don’t get to clock out of being a parent because you’re hungover.
can we all look at this comment plz xxx
You two really thought out this baby-raising thing well beforehand, didn’t you?
ESH.
Clearly not.
UPDATE ***** i did it, he’s raging 🤣🤣
Holy shit this poor kid is fucked . You two are not ready to be parents if you’re both this incredibly immature.
fuck offff
Oh look two more “adults” who didn’t have a Fkn conversation about how their lives would change before having a baby and now using the baby as some sort of punishment to the other
yes indeed
INFO: How old are you?