Like… now I think I know what girls experience when they have hordes of desperate guy buzzing around them.
I know a girl at university who, besides being ugly, has objectively problematic hygiene, is unpleasant and makes offensive comments about boys’ appearances, but she is kind to me because she believes she can get something out of it. It disgusted me that she was hitting on me. Now you might say, “Why didn’t you set boundaries at the beginning when she started being kind?”, but I don’t have to become a professional psychologist to avoid these people
Without giving you an entire Ted talk, you very much don’t seem to understand it. That’s irrelevant as this isn’t really an AITAH post.