Today I (23m) was at the gym hitting leg day, this is the only day of the week I wear shorts since I’m a little insecure about my leg hair, and bulge when I wear them. Anyways while I was using the hack squat there was a girl about my age who was lingering around the machine, I asked if I could help her or if she just wanted to work in and she said yeah. Things are normal and I’m mainly just disassociating after my sets. After we’re done she asked if I could give her form tips on the barbell squat
As we’re going over to the squat racks she starts touching my arm, and saying things like “my boyfriend would kill me if he saw us right now” which caught me off guard because I’m slightly autistic. This was followed by other weird comments and stares at me while I was teaching her. By the end of it I was pretty fed up and told her off for wasting my time because her form was fine and she was just flirting with me. I told her if I saw her with her boyfriend here with her I’d tell him everything, and she kept making excuses saying she just wanted help. At that point I just left, am I the asshole for any of this? A couple of my friends are giving me a hard time and keep saying that she was just being nice and that I’m an incel
Stop lying
Please help, I’m so insecure about my bulge. I never wear shorts because my giant cock attracts too much attention but I just had to bro, it was leg day. Women come running from every corner of the gym to waste my time with their silly little flirting, but I can’t hear them over the sound of my massive penis. I wish these dumb bitches would just leave me and my gargantuan hog alone to work on my perfect, enviable physique in peace. No, every word of this is true bro I swear. Why must god curse me with such a big fat mammoth dong and perfect squat form? Why god why?! What did I do to deserve this totally and completely real fate?
NTA That’s harassment and your friends wouldn’t be saying that if you were a girl!
NTA. She’s a h03. Your friends are TA for siding with the girl just cause they would have loved to have been in that kind of situation. That’s disgusting.
Autistic or not, your discomfort was valid. You were respectful, then stopped engaging when it crossed a line
So this bulge you speak of…
NTA. She’s pulling a bunch of crap while you’re trying to actually work out.
NTA. I think you have some pretty fantastic integrity.
NTA. Stop apologizing for making someone uncomfortable who had no problem making you uncomfortable.
NTA. Your friends are imbeciles who do not even know what incel means.
Why tell her off? Just tell her you’re not interested. That’s why I love headphones…lol
I would report to management.
Her membership will be revoked
Everything else aside… Dude, wear shorts that minimise your ‘bulge’…!
it’s not ~~hard~~ difficult to get gym shorts that ‘preserve your modesty’.
Yeah dude, that totally happened. That girl saw your massive bulge and just couldn’t control herself anymore. You’re such an alpha.
Seriously, what do people get from making these kinds of posts?