Long story short, I injured myself in the pelvic floor somehow 4-5 years ago, hypertonic pelvic floor ( hard flaccid syndrome) and I don’t have pelvic floor therapy in my country so I’m waiting for money inheritance to go to the UAE ( closer to my country) and get treatment there but idk if I’ll ever go back to normal
I don’t have high libido like before, no morning wood, smaller erections and I’m already insecure about my size which is 5 inches only
I can like get hard 2 times a week because after each ejaculation my symptoms flare up
In my country we don’t get to have sex till marriage so we’ll be both virgins, I’m in a relationship with this girl for 1 year and we’re compatible but I’m afraid having less sex is gonna make her leave me
Should I get married? Or she will get her life ruined? I’ve hinted it before because I don’t have the balls to tell her yet in hopes I get cured or manage it with medications / treatments etc…
What to do
Hey man 5 inches is plenty! Back me up here fellas!
Massive even!
some would say too big
Might even hold some back, to be polite
the world average is around 5.17 inches.
Now I don’t know how many of you guys can measure your cylinders down to 10 thau precision, but IMO 0.17 inches is within margins for measurement errors.
Tl;Dr: you’re average, get over your penis insecurities
Edit: people are curious, so here is the [source](https://www.science.org/content/article/how-big-average-penis). There is also a bit more info on the statistics
I’d like to apologize for my contributions of tanking the world average by being very much under average.
We all must work with the tools we are given, my friend. No sense wallowing in shame over something you cannot control, better to find a way to make do with what you have. Best of luck, your worth is so much more than your genitalia.
Not a fella but 5” is way more than enough.
Anything 7 and above is extremely uncomfortable, puts a hinder in positions, I def won’t cum because I’m grimacing thru the pain..
As a woman with a short curved cervix – 3-5” is perfect.
I’ve never understood the fetish with a circus dick- but to each their own. I’ve actually dismissed men with members too big.
Circus dick 😂
…but they did not back him up. In fact, they all stepped back leaving him twisting in the breeze. That was the day Andy Dufresne learned a harsh truth…
No woman falls in love with a man because of his penis. In fact, once you learn that her hypergamous attraction for you will last roughly 2 years before her biochemicals wear off, penis size is completely irrelevant.
It only matters to what she has been acclimated to during her life. If she’s had nothing but large penises, then yes, she may care. But the majority of men are average so the percentages are high that she’s been acclimated to average. (not addressing OP’s virgin gf here).
And what makes ALL of this even MORE irrelevant: her clitoris is where you need to focus if you want her to enjoy having sex with you.
And even BEYOND irrelevant: she’s more concerned about her cellulite, whether or not she looks pretty, whether or not you’ll reject her once you see her naked, her breast size, her ass size, is she tight enough, does she smell good down there, did she shave, did she….
Is it beginning to sink in?
Your penis size is irrelevant! It means absolutely nothing in the grand scheme of things.
Learn how to be a great lover (hint: it’s doing everything else without penetration that makes her feel valued, cherished & loved in bed. Kissing, foreplay, touching, caressing, sliding your hands all over her body and letting her know by telling her the effect she’s having on you, cuddling).
All this sh!t’s in books. Learn how to read.
Go see a doctor my man, size isn’t the issue
You should be attempting exercises and other things on your own. It’s worth a shot and only costs some time. You can check out r/Prostatitis I don’t know what will help specifically.
Well work on your head game mate, it will pay dividends.
++Man Bro you can get good with things other than penetration sex if you can’t get or maintain an erection. You can use your hands, mouth, vibrator, dildo, spatula, spoon, or whatever you can find and still give your girl what she needs. You can still be awesome at sex.
There’s actually a guy on pornhub I watched years ago called HunkHands lol. He only uses his hands on girls and they loved it.