It’s been 3 mos since my casual relationship ended (he just never texted anymore and I didn’t reach out either way) and there has been no single day that I don’t think abt him and what he’s up to and I hate myself for feeling like this. I know it sucks bc I am still grieving for the connection and for someone who was never mine.
You gotta detox from the Oxytocin, takes a while. Time, plus doing other things with your life. Not necessarily romantic
The best way to get over someone is get under someone else.
The forever relationship
Finding someone new cures this in most cases.
Don’t just jump into bed with somebody else like all these unevolved people are talking about. It’s a vicious cycle where more and more people are using someone to get over somebody else and there’s just a whole lot of hurt feelings going around and and you sure as hell won’t feel better about yourself. It’ll only be a short term distraction.
This is ask Men advice. Just saying. We are underevolved apparently.
This is profound advice & I agree with it all.
idk i think about almost every single person i’ve ever even hooked up with on an almost weekly basis in various contexts so idk dude
Doing something other than hooking up. Hobbies, work, exercise. Something to challenge your mind and/or body.. or you may stay fixated on the past
Why not just reach out if it is making you hate yourself. I legitimately am in the same exact boat… I’m almost to 3 months since she did the same, but I refuse to reinitiate conversation since she wanted silence. Just gotta move on OP.
You messed up catching feelings for a casual hook up. Just time. Get under someone else etc.
I often think of a girl I used to hook up with in college. I often suspected she was a lesbian and used me as a beard although I never brought this up with her. Sometimes I think about her and how her life turned out.
I think he means intrusive thoughts.
For him you could have been another lay, for you he could have been your dream guy.
Seems like you fall easily, maybe next time wait for commitment before you have sex 🤷🏿♂️