My self-esteem is low and I find it hard to imagine that girls can be into me. For a while, my gaze has crossed the one of a girl from my class at a course I’m taking, and once she even sat at the seat on my side, even though there were others available. I didn’t approach her and honestly still don’t think she was interested in me.
I never saw her again, but I’d like to learn ways to identify choosing signals and to know when to approach girls, as I think this will be a useful skill for the future.
I’m looking forward for your advice!
Don’t, it’s not worth it.
They aren’t. Nobody is walking around with fully-formed opinions of you. If you’re interested in talking to someone, talk to her. You don’t need an engraved invitation to try to strike up a conversation with someone. If you start and it’s not going well, you can bow out.
This!
If a girl is truly into you, you’ll never need to guess.
You’ll never know if a girl is interested in you or not till you ask them out.
I am saying this with tons of love in my heart – use your school resources and speak to any therapist or counselor about your self esteem. It doesn’t need “fixing”, but I hear someone who has fabulous potential to be someone greater. Speaking to a professional can help you along the way.
There is absolutely no way to properly gauge other people’s interest except to engage them and to give them permission to engage you back. Be vulnerable and be genuine, and it will take you very far in dating. Best of luck!
bro said “a girl sat next to me once… is that a signal?”
The context is as follows: there were plenty of other seats available and she chose to seat on the one that was right on my side. She could have sat at a distance of one, two or three chairs from me, but she chose to seat as close as she could from me.
she’s sat next to other people before though, yeah? You reckon she’s into them too??
Only next to her friends. I had never even talked to her.
did she talk to you when she sat next to you?
Get into some self help reading, audios or even videos. You need to work on the self esteem. Women like strong self confidence and esteem
There are even subliminal downloads on these subjects. Well worth it.
Avoid women who play games. If she likes you, she will tell you. If not, move on.
Everyone loves me cause I’m amazing.
Be a little delusional and start by saying “Hello”