Any tips to let him go easily, I love do love him but Im so afraid of getting it, like I would hate myself forever and never be comfortable again, (no hate for those who have it) But plss anyone who understands plsss some tips🙏🏽😔❤️
Any tips to let him go easily, I love do love him but Im so afraid of getting it, like I would hate myself forever and never be comfortable again, (no hate for those who have it) But plss anyone who understands plsss some tips🙏🏽😔❤️
Try to be honest about your feelings. If you really care about him try to be Gentle with him. The other option is to be the bad guy or girl in your case. Sometimes it is easier on them that way too.
How did you find out?
He told me 4 months after and we had already been having A LOT of sex…
THIS is your problem. he didn’t disclose.
I asked him if he had anything before we had sex, he said no im clean. My bad then ig..
You need to get tested, and honestly just break up with him because he lied to you and put your health at risk for 4 months. He’s a dishonest individual, even if he has other qualities you like.
Well, as long as you asked.. I mean. That’s all the protection you need.
They’re not saying it’s your bad. They’re saying the problem isn’t that he has HSV2, the problem is that he lied to you about it.
You can break up with him for lying to you, not because he has hsv2.
So he lied? You don’t need to let him down gently. He chose NOT to tell you. He didn’t give you autonomy to say no to sex. Or to research it more to protect yourself.
Tell him, he needs to tell his next partner before they have sexual contact because not disclosing this is wrong. Some people would consider it assault since it’s such an intimate situation.
Make it clear the lie is the reason you are breaking up. You cannot trust him.
WTF. He lied to you about having an STD and you didn’t immediately break up?
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You don’t break up with your boyfriend for having HSV-2.
You break up with your boyfriend for **refusing to disclose it for 4 months**.
Lying and dishonesty is always a perfectly valid reason to end a relationship, ANY RELATIONSHIP, no further explanation or clarification fucking needed.
**Edit**: Just because it’s legal not to disclose this in Sweden, does not make it moral. Don’t confuse the law with morality. What he did was wrong and I would not trust someone like this as far as I could throw them.
“I love you but, I don’t want to get HSV”
He is a bad person for not telling you. Genital herpes causes terrible pain for women