There is this guy i have been really interested in. Ive passed by him a few times and each time, he always smiled or said Hi to me. We never really actually talked or had an introduction but im really crushing on him
I just feel like until a proper convo has happened, im basically doing the pursuing if i follow him on IG?
Any advice if i shpuld hold off. The worst part is him not adding me back and id have to see him at work.
Just talk to him and tell him you find him attractive and see if he would like to go on a date with you. Ffs.
Reverse the genders, and it would be a hard no.
Even still, my suggestion would be to make conversation in person.
If he does not respond however you would prefer, no electronic paper trail.
“No electronic paper trail” who cares about that? It’s not like she’s going to harass the dude
Genders reversed and people would be calling it “stalking”…
Has it ever crossed your mind to just…speak to him when you get the chance?
Yeah start with IG, go from there, get to test out the waters without diving straight in (as some of the advice is).
And you pursuing is undesirable why?
Why do women expect men to be mind readers? Next time you see him, say hello. Introduce yourself.
Try – win or
– lose
Don’t try – Lose
Take your shot girl. Godamn
Follow. Like a few pics. Only downside is if he don’t say anything I’ll feel even worth and he might not get the message. Just talk to him ffs and yes you are doing the pursuing as u are the one ‘really crushing on him’
Next time he says hi, talk to him and ask if he has any socials. I don’t think 90% of guys would mind, even if he wasn’t interested in you. But why do the online stalker thing when you don’t have to?
If the guy is at work then you should take it SLOW. Over months or more. Get to know him well before pursuing anything.
Edit to include:
Wait for social media to enter the conversation…after you actually figure out how to talk to him. That way you can follow him on IG in a friendly way.