Is this guy into me or not?

I sit next to two guys at work and we’ve gotten close. They’re both gentlemen and always bring me water and things like that. I thought one of them liked me because he says things like “take me with you” when I mentioned going to LA, and I’ve caught him staring at me a few times.

But today I got confused. He was talking to my coworker who only speaks Spanish and said he wants to go to Brazil to find a “Brazilian girl” (Im Brazilian) and asked where the most beautiful girls are. He then starting saying things in English, but my coworker doesn’t speak English, so it felt like he wanted me to hear it. But I kept ignoring their convo. Then he looked at me and asked the same question. I answered “Idk”, but now I’m wondering why he’d ask me that. Does that mean he’s not into me?

13 thoughts on “Is this guy into me or not?”
  1. Men banter with other men but if he jokes about going with u and looks at you when he can sneak a glance he wants u bro just give him flowers one day

  2. Do you look remotely close to Gorlock the Destroyer? if not then yes, he wants to smash. Have fun and be safe 👍 

  3. You’re analyzing this too much. If he flirts, flirt back if you like him.
    Otherwise stop confusing yourself with your own analysis.

  4. First off, the correct answer was “are you telling me there are no beautiful girls in this room?”

    Second, yeah he’s into you, but he (still) doesn’t get that you are into you too. You might need to corner the other guy and ask, “hey, how come your buddy hasn’t asked me out?” Or better still, ask the guy right in front of him.

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