The caption basically says it all. We met in August, went out for lunch and ended up hanging out for \~14 hours. We slept together on the first date (which is crazy and something I never thought I’d do, but the chemistry was insane) We texted frequently for the next few weeks, but didn’t end up hanging out again for two months. I hadn’t been with anyone else during this time. We hooked up again in October, and after that I figured he wasn’t looking for monogamy. I distanced myself and started talking to others. We didn’t talk too much since we were both pretty busy (besides some drunk calls). But, about a month later we hung out again, and I realized I wanted to be exclusive with him. So, I brought up the next week and since then everything’s been perfect. We’ve been exclusive for about 5 months, and officially dating for 3. He’s by far one of the most caring, honest, and kind people I’ve met, and our relationship so far has been very healthy and very honest.
We hung out with one of my bfs friends recently and his friend mentioned my bfs “hoe phase” which he was in when we met. He asked if I knew my bf had slept with other people before I asked him to be exclusive. I just laughed about it and told him i didn’t know, but I don’t really care. His friend seemed upset about it and called me crazy. I mean I wasn’t exactly “loyal” to him before we talked about exclusivity. And, since we did, my bf hasn’t given me even half of a reason not to trust him, and I’m not willing to throw away an incredible relationship over it. Is that crazy? Should I care more than I do?
Congratulations on being a sensible mature person.
Your BFs friend sounds like an idiot though, I’m guessing your BFs friend has a crush on you and is trying to break up you and BF.
You done nothing wrong and neither did your BF.
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Definitely stirring. Who brings up something like that unless they want to see a reaction
That was your agreement then. You werent exclusive. Now if he does then you have a reason to care.
That guy was ragebaiting. Some care, some don’t. But if I was the BF, and my buddy spilled tea on me like that, he would not be a buddy any longer.
Loyalty is the only absolutely requires quality in a friendship (relationships too ofc) so once that’s broken so is the friendship.
You were talking to others too. I think it’s normal if you don’t care. At least you’re not a hypocrite.
Why his friend tried to sabotage your relationship? Does he like you?
First of all, that friend is wild af. Who does that?
that’s what I was thinking! Ik they’ve been friends for a while, but I thought it was really strange of him to bring up
Sounds like perfectly reasonable level of caring
It’s fair game. You’re reasonable.
Brings back “We were on a break!” vibes XD
Your boyfriend slept with other people while he was single? You should be absolute appalled 😂😂😂
Why would you care about him not cheating?
His friend is trying to start trouble and is now angry that it didn’t work.
this is fake. 2 months ago OP posted about being 20 and that her 24 year old virgin BF was upset about her bodycount.