My boyfriend and I used to do everything together and I’m not so sure how to handle being alone again. we would spend every night playing video games or watching movies together, he helped me at my lowest. he was my best friend and now I just feel so alone, I tried to hangout with friends and talk to my family but he’s still all I can think about. I got rid of everything that reminds me of him and we’re blocked on everything. I’m not sure where to go from here. I don’t know how to fill my time that won’t remind me of him, and I keep going to unblock him. how do I get over my first real heart break. sorry it kinda jumbled and doesn’t make much sense, I just don’t know who to ask or talk to.
No easy answer.
If you had joint time that you used to game together, that time is now free. Fill it. Start a new hobby.
You’re a different person to when you were 17. Young love has a high turnover rate. This is normal.
Are you in school?
I am, I’m currently in my last semester of college and graduating in may
I know it’s maybe a little late, but find a club that does some of the same hobbies you liked doing with your partner. I met a lot of my friends by joining a club where we just watched anime and played board games after I got broken up with when I was 19. There’s probably a club on campus that you can go and just play board games, or play Super Smash or something like that and just meet people. Maybe grab dinner. It genuinely healed me and got me through that low point.
why’d yall break up
He didn’t give me a reason, just said he didn’t wanna be in a relationship with me anymore
Man 😔I’m so sorry to hear that. While yes, you can break with anyone for any reason, that doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt. I’m sure you have a lot of questions but truly the only way to move past thing is to live your life one day at a time.
The reason doesn’t matter and people rarely tell the truth in a breakup anyway. I would toss yourself into working out and focusing on school. Time heals all wounds and in a few weeks you will feel much better.