So I’ve having been dating this guy for nearly a month now. Things have been moving quite quickly, meeting each other’s parents, staying over etc. He’s the first guy I’ve had serious feelings for and he has sooo many green flags. Problem is he was in a 2 year long before me and they only broke up 6 months ago. Apparently it was after they moved in together and ‘things just changed’. On his socials he still had highlights with her in them with love hearts and wedding rings, but he deleted them once we became official without me asking. I was fine with all this and wasn’t worried too much until the other night, we were on his tiktok and I saw a chat thread with his exes name. I didnt say anything cause technically I shouldn’t really know her name or anything. Same thing happened on Instagram last night except she had sent a post to him. I should have said something then but I didnt. Do I bring this up to him? Or is it too soon, will I seem insecure?
Um girl. Bring this up to him. It’s not an insecurity when he’s still texting his ex and hasn’t told you. And if he calls you insecure, then tell him you’d rather not feel like a side chick in your own relationship.
Major Red Flag