So today I had to work with two women downstairs I don’t work with them or talk to them often. So I go to their area, and on the left is the girl I have to work with and on the right I don’t need to work with. So as I’m standing behind the girl I’m working with going over something with her on her computer screen, the girl to the right is like "oh what are you drinking, what flavor is that?" (its some pink monster) and I walked up to her and showed her and she repeated the name of it and looked at me and smiled. Then as shes looking at me shes like whats new? with a smile as her body is facing me. I feel like shes staring into my soul and distracting me from the task at hand so I kind of awkwardly don’t answer and go back to work with the girl I was working with. I had my back turned and the other girl moves her chair like 5 feet forward shes directly to the left of the girl I was working with and so now she’s in my space. We made eye contact once or twice and she laughed at one or two things I said then I left cause I didn’t want to linger.
When I was behind the girl working I felt like the girl to the left was looking at us/me the whole time/staring kinda. I wasn’t there for her even. Idk man I just felt like she was giving me extra attention and wanted me to talk to her.
Go down there and ask her out, tomorrow
LOL people talk so much shhhhh when it’s not THEIR neck on the line LOL……..(he nonchalantly tells him to go jump out the window) LOL smh
You are probably massively overthinking this.
A woman was trying to make conversation with you. Perhaps she was just bored/being friendly/wanted attention. Perhaps she was attracted to you.
The best approach is to assume she is attracted to you, engage in further conversation, then suggest doing something alone together sometime (like go for a drink). Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know. Then you either have the opporunity to get to know one another, or go and focus on someone else.
Action is much better than thinking when it comes to these things.
Overthinking…. She sounds bored and wanted some attention…test it out and go down there again and see if she gives you the same or similar chat
She probably just wanted attention or was bored..
If it happens again, contact HR.
If you work in the office together – just leave a post-it note that says “thanks” with a happy face. If you don’t say “thanks” its creepy. Think of a reason about when yall were talking to some people about the “thanks”.
If you don’t directly work together, and you have an opportunity just make up a girl you broke up with. Be serious, not “sad”.