Normally, I eat her out for several minutes and get her close, then let her grind on me in the cowgirl position so she can orgasm in a few minutes.
She recently told me she wants to orgasm just from piv sex without oral in prior, and it generally takes her 10-15 minutes without a break, but I can only stay hard for about 5-6 minutes and need rest after that. What should I do? This is making me feel less like a man, and the fear is making me struggle with staying hard even more. Any tips would be appreciated.
Edit : Also I’m insecure because of my average girth. I’ve heard a lot of women on reddit saying girth is important for orgasm, so I’d appreciate some opinions on it too. Thanks.
Cock ring
This. This is the way.
Or Cialis. I’d talk to a doctor to see which is the right choice.
Both is the right choice
He said he needs a rest. He needs a treadmill not medication
Buy one of those rings that go at the bottom of your D I think those are to help have longer erections
I find it’s easier to hold out if she rides. Let her do everything and then take over when she’s close.
low dose Cialis.
All jokes aside. This shit is marketed to the wrong crowd. lol. I have never been harder longer…
As people said, cock ring. Mint lube also helps. Feels like your dick did a line of blow.
you only stay hard for 5-6 mins because you nutted or you just get soft after that without nutting?
Yeah this is a crucial detail. If you can’t maintain an erection for 7 minutes you need to see a doctor!
I read this as he gets soft, AND can’t continue the physical work (“I need to take a break”). If I’m reading that correctly, getting in some basic condition might handle the softness problem.
In missionary, move yourself upward as much as possible so the base of your cock is closer to her clit (spread her legs as much as possible to facilitate). Make your motion more rubbing than thrusting, using your cock the way you would you fingers