Im pretty sure we have all hear that when you dont care or not trying to be desperate women will flock to you. Personally, I dont think that really matters. I think it is more about turning on a woman sexually or spark some curiosity to make her want more. Then after that has been there, you can back away.
I say this as someone who is pretty laidback and never really did well with women throughout my life. Heck, I was even more of the nice guy when I first dated but without ulterior motives. This may be controversial to say but I dont think niceness really attracts women.
And I mean the real nice behavior were you are kind and not a pushover or secretly manipulative. I only say because the times that I was nice and gentlemen like, women tend to test my manhood more and often pick the guys who had no problem asking for sex lol
But its not my personality to be so sexual. However I am started to consider it because my friends who are really good with women are about hookups and sex. Women straight up flock to them. They dont do that with me even when I get a date, they tend to want to be platonic until I tell them that this is a date. We arent going to be friends then they more sexual.
So I am curious what you guys think?
The best way is to be handsome.
Trust me.
tall and handsome usually work best. might also help if you look like you have a high paying career.
Depends on the woman and what she likes
I think if you’re choosing one or the other to project you’re still being fake and wasting your time out of desperation
Be you. Who it attracts, it’ll attract. If it attracts no one, then make solitude a hard won ally
Just follow rules #1 and #2 and you’ll be fine.
Women want the quiet confident guy but it’s the loud a holes who are the ones approaching them.
Yeah I think you need just enough forwardness to initiate a conversation and ask for a number and suggest a date. But in terms of vibes guys that are loud and self-absorbed and talk a lot really fuck it up more than they are aware of.
Best is a mix of both. Be friendly, polite, smile, but also be a bit flirty.
Depends on the woman man. Personal hygiene, dressing well, smelling good and confidence will take you far my friend.
Being forward about what you want is the best way.
OP please take a break. Going back to your usual posting about dating women barely 4 hours after posting about your first deceased patient is crazy work
Your approach doesn’t matter. Focus on improving your looks.
the best approach is making them think other women are interested in you.
Talk about your exes.
I think you’re overthinking it. The formula is that there is no formula. Being nice because you think that helps your chances with women is being a “nice guy.” Being nice because you genuinely believe people should be treated with civil respect is being a good man. Women like good men. Who you are shouldn’t be framed around the type of women you meet. The type of women you meet should be framed around who you are. All in all, be who you are and strive to be a good man.