"Don’t trick off your money" – Don’t supplicate to women financially; don’t go blowing drinks and expensive things on a girl, because either a girl likes you or don’t. You can’t pay her to like you.
"Don’t trick off your money" – Don’t supplicate to women financially; don’t go blowing drinks and expensive things on a girl, because either a girl likes you or don’t. You can’t pay her to like you.
You can’t pay her to like you but generosity is attractive and stinginess generally isn’t.
I know that’s not what you wanted to hear, but it’s how it is.
When we are married
When i feel she’s worth it
When she actually likes me and makes a mutual effort/gives mutual interest. If she gives more than me then that is even better, but long term you want interest to be equal between you two more or less.
Not required: but a good sign is if she offers to pay for dates.
It’s all about **reciprocity** more than the specifics of “when to spend money on a woman.”
Don’t spend money on a woman trying to impress her. You’ll only impress the wrong kinds of women.
But, if you are dating a woman who shows genuine enthusiasm (i.e. she’s not glued to her phone), and shows, particularly through her **ACTIONS**, that she gives back in various ways (money may be one, but there are non-sexual non-monetary ways she can like cooking for you, or whatever), spending money on her is one way to reciprocate a genuine interest in a sincere relationship.
Just make sure to keep things balanced, overall.
My husband got comped tickets to the comedy show for our first date and he paid for the appetizers and drinks. I already had a hotel room because I didn’t want to drive home after the show got out, which we put to good use. I paid for breakfast the next morning. Since I made more money and he was paying child support for 3 children I paid for most of our dates. Engaged 2 months later, together 25 years. All our money is ours. If she is interested the money doesn’t matter.
Engaged in 2 months and it actually lasted?
Wow talk about winning the jackpot type of odds. Congrats
We are both so grateful!!
Seriously it’s insane, truly the exception.
I love this ! Much respect to you and may you have much success.
I think in the initial first date, second date, it’s a positive to show that you are financially sound and have money to cover a dinner or a night out.
But after that, I spend money on things that I like to do, and sometimes that involves paying for your significant other while your in the dating phase. Obviously gifts on holidays & birthdays within reason and hopefully aligned to whatever your significant other is willing/happy to do. Never ever use money as a way to buy love, only as a way to enjoy your love.
I bought my GF a margarita earlier…
When I’m convinced they are genuinely there to enjoy my company. I don’t mind going for coffee or tea, and paying for that as first date. But after that, only way I’m spending more is if I’m getting genuine vibes from them.
A dating coach online I watch said take her to cheap places until she hides the salami.