I (26) moved into a new shared house a few months ago. There were two women already living there; Maddie (31) and Louise (23). So far we’ve gotten along fine– a few settling in hiccups but nothing major.
However, Louise’s mother frequently visits. As in, she will stay the weekend every other week. She sleeps in my housemates room; Louise has a bunk bed. Thats fine. I can deal with it. She’s nice and all, and doesn’t cause any problems, but she is not someone I want to hang out with (aside from the fact that she’s my housemates mom she has some…interesting opinions and a habit of sharing them unprompted). This has escalated over the holiday break; she stayed here for the 6 days leading up to Christmas, then again from the 26th to the 30th, and now she’s been here since the 1st of Jan. Everyone in my city went back to work on Mon; the holiday is officially over.
Again, she doesn’t do anything specifically that would warrent being kicked out; she cleans up after herself and is a generally decent person. I am just very tired of having her around, always asking me what I’m doing or pulling me into unsolicited conversations about astrology (a few days ago she asked me, unprompted, how I was "dealing with the astrovibes"???). So WIBTA for (politely) asking my roommate to end her mom’s visit?
“The astro vibes are telling me that bills will be split 4 ways when you are here longer than 5 days a month.”