My boyfriend of 13+ years just told me that if I were to purchase a season pass to a amusement park that I needed to move out because he said he didn’t need to be with a whore who runs around all of the time. Because apparently driving an hour or so to get there constitutes as running around. The most important reason I’m considering it is that both of our sons are finally able to go and tall enough to ride on mostly all of the coasters and they both enjoy riding them, however my boyfriend doesn’t like riding them. WIBTA for doing it for the kids at least?
YTA to yourself for putting up with a guy who talks to you like that.
Are we all going to just pretend he didn’t call her a whore?
NTA. If anyone you’re in a relationship with calls you a whore, that should be your cue to leave. (This does not apply to people who consent to being called whore for sex degradation reasons whatever that is)
NTA for wanting to do something fun for you and the kiddos
Y T A though because why are you raising kids in an environment where you find it OK to be called a wh*re ?
NTA. I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with someone who would ever call me a whore or suggest that I was a whore just because he’s not a fan of amusement parks/roller coasters. Is your boyfriend looking for a way to end this relationship? Seems like it.
Perhaps you would be better off just filing for joint custody in family court and working out a co-parenting plan, and you can be the fun mom who takes the kids to the amusement park every other week.
Hope that you’re the higher earner and you don’t own a home with this AH and you can kick him out.
NTA, but maybe also start looking for another place to live and build your own life because if your partner calls you a wh*re for going to an amusement park there must be something horrible wrong with him and you deserve better.
YWBTA for not leaving this horrible human being to protect your children from growing up around a dysfunctional abusive relationship.
NTA
But why are you with him if he thinks you going to an amusement park is you “running around” on him? You should be thinking about if this relationship is worth it to be in if he treats you like that.
NTA. Nobody should speak to you like that, let alone the person who is supposed to be in love with you. You’re trying to do something fun, for both of your sons, and your boyfriend is tearing you down. Personally, I’d take another look at the relationship, because you deserve better than an insecure man who speaks to you in such a way. I’d be looking for another place to live. And buy the passes, if you can still swing it.
NTA
Is this for real? He sounds seriously unstable. Calling you a name for that is beyond ridiculous. Does he have some sort of issues going on. Not that it excuses it.
Does he usually treat you like this? Because maybe it’s time to reevaluate this relationship
NTA, How did the two of you last 13 years?
NTA. And you’re still in this relationship….why?
This is the worst post I’ve ever seen on here. I can’t tell if you’re just completely making this up? Are you seriously asking if you’d be an AH for taking your kids to an amusement park….? You have to be kidding
What the fuck, he called you a whore? For wanting to go to an amusement park? This is not okay and you’re completely under reacting. He sounds very controlling, maybe you don’t notice because he’s controlled you so well that you don’t even do anything that he doesn’t like? Do you want your kids to think this is normal?