What is the best why to ask my husband to please take a shower?
Happily married (29 F and 31 M). My husband only takes showers when he has done something dirty such as plumbing, going to the junk yard, or changing the oil…
December 2025
What do you talk about with people? Friends, girls, when you meet someone.
I haven’t been able to find even friends for a long time, that I don’t even remember how people communicate , and it’s hard for me to understand what normal…
When is the right time to bring up the “define the relationship” conversation?
Well, I was dating this guy for three months and we had the talk to define the relationship. He seemed very nervous about it and said we weren’t on the…
What makes casual joking or friendliness feel like flirting to you?
I’m a woman who’s naturally friendly like I smile, make small jokes when it feels right, and try to keep conversations light. For example, if I’m working an event, I’ll…
Is my (44f) boyfriend (29m) stuck in the past?
I have known my boyfriend for close to 7 years. We were always good friends and the attraction was always there, but it was never a "good time." One or…
I 21/F am having a repeat of the same issue with my bf 33/M
I 21/F have been dating my bf M/33 for almost 2 years. We’ve had A LOT of ups and downs in our relationship. A little less than a year ago…
AITA for pulling out of SIL’s 30th Birthday?
My Boyfriend’s sister just made a group chat yesterday asking myself and all her friends to stay at an air bnb for her birthday next month. She needs people to…
I (30f) don’t like the way my gf (30f) speaks to her friends
I’ve been with my gf for a few months and it’s going well. She’s very nice to me but I’ve noticed when we hang out with her friends she talks…
Long-term relationship (M26, F27) future uncertain after caregiver burnout and dead bedroom
My (26M) girlfriend (F27) and I have been together for over 5 years. We met when we were teens (we come from the same area in Romania) and were good…
M/25 with F/19– She insisted on coming to my place despite my anxiety. What am I supposed to do now?
I was talking to a woman for two weeks on Discord. She wanted to meet me and bought a train ticket, but I didn’t feel right about it. It was…