[AITA] So this is the present day and is currently happening right now, me and 3 other mates are away in Liverpool for 1 night, we set off early in the morning so around this time 24 hours ago, I did manage to get 4 hours yesterday and I was looking forward to my room that I was sharing with another mate, 2 single beds. For some reason because my 2 other "mates" are so unprepared they decide to sneak into ours and say they want to sleep over here, I got the bed which is completely fair so they are on the floor and I reluctantly agree. I paid not to much money only 20 pounds and they snore like lawn mowers, I have never witnessed anything so horrific in my life. I have very expensive noise cancelling earbuds but they are not working due to the substantial amount of noise. I have done every trick in the book, put all the pillows I can over my head, switched ends of the bed. Even went for a walk in Liverpool itself but it was not the best environment however currently I am regretting that decision so much. As I am messaging this the snoring is not stopping and is continuous. I have had to share rooms before like this but never this bad. So any chance of me sleeping will be impossible so I am just gonna try and pass the time for the next 7 hours somehow. But am I the asshole, I paid money for this room yet I am not gonna get a single hour or even 10 minutes. I just want to wake them up and ask them to leave but that’ll be too harsh on them. So I’m conclussion I think the damage is done, I accepted them to stay here and I can’t just kick them out, but still it’s not fair that I’m sacrificing a whole night’s of sleep. Unfortunately I live so far from Liverpool so the earliest I will get home and sleep will be late evening as I have booked stuff here to do. So any advice on how to pass the time, somehow get to sleep ork the opinion on who is I’m the right or wrong would be great.
Feel free to reply and ask questions. Atleast writing this passed 15 minutes.
Thank you for listening to me moan lol
Wake them up. They’ll be pissed. Not your problem for planning ahead and these two fools elected to not. Yeah you’ll feel bad, but what’s worse, feeling like a jerk for a bit and getting sleep? Or being awake all night with steadily growing resentment and ruining tomorrow for yourself by getting no sleep? They’ll bitch about “no where to go” and you can agree to let them stay but let them know you’ll wake them when they wake you. Sorry you’re in this shitty situation, I’ve been there. NTA if you wake them, YTA to yourself if you didn’t put your needs first for planning correctly.
Is this a preemptive AITA? Asking for suggestions how to be an AH? My dude listening to snoring in a hotel room is an absolute horror – I have endured it many a time. “Accidentally” hit the remote and crank the TV. Dump an ice bucket on them. Oh sorry man, but while you’re up ARE YOU AWARE SNORING AND SLEEP APNEA IS A HEALTH RISK?! I want to see creative problem solving. No harm, of course, but wake ‘em up.
Poke them, tell them they are snoring, ask them to roll over. If they start snoring again, poke them again. If they start a 3rd time, dump some water on them.