Editted: Ok redditors, calm down, he can have some. Nobody said he can’t. I would love to have someone enjoyingly eat my food. I went to culinary school for God sake. I just don’t like it getting wasted.
For context, my husband(30M) and I(30F) have quite the opposite taste. I don’t like eating bananas uncooked because I hate having that film feeling in my mouth. My husband on the other hand, don’t like eating anything banana in it’s cooked form, although I never seen him eating a banana raw either.
I rarely ever buy bananas, unless I intend to bake them into banana bread, so this was definitely planned since you have to wait for them to turn brown. I did just that and it sat in the counter for about more than a week. Also, I always buy extra than what I need for the recipe incase he wanted some. Two days ago, it finally got to a point where it was brown enough for the recipe and I even said to him that I planned to make the banana bread soon and just needed to buy brown sugar since I didn’t realize we didn’t have any, just so he doesn’t say something about them browning or throwing them out. Last night I finally baked it and if you’ve made banana bread before, you know the whole house starts smelling like bananas. After baking, I left it jn the counter to cool and forgot about it.
Around like 11/12pm we had dinner. The banana bread was still in the counter at this point since I’ve been busy studying. After an hour from dinner, my husband decided to feed the cats and got up from the bed and went to the kitchen. This was when he saw the baked goodies in the counter and decided to cut up 2 slices and come to me while I was studying. He took a bite saying it was good and eventually scrunched his face and said,"Eugh! But that banana is bad!" This is when I got annoyed, for one, I didn’t ask him to grab a slice or to mess with it. He then told me that he was trying to be sweet and wanted to cut me a slice while I was busy studying. Two, I am well aware he doesn’t like bananas on bread and that was why I never offered it to him but he’s upset that I didn’t tell him it had bananas. Three, he cut them up so crooked and mind you this was like almost 1am and we just had dinner. Idk what he was thinking honestly. I also get really annoyed when he interups/disturbs me when I’m studying and have told him multiple times to stop doing that since I don’t interupt him when he’s working(wfh).
I called him an asshole and he got upset because apparently that’s disrespectful.
So… AITA for calling my husband an asshole when he took slices of my baked banana bread without asking?
ESH why y’all mad at each other over nothing
YTA. I’m confused. Did you make the banana bread just for you and got mad he had some? Selfish much? His reaction was weird too. Bananas for banana bread are supposed to be brown/black. That way, they’re far sweeter than an unripe or just ripe one. He said it was good and then ugh? I’m just very confused
Yta
But only mildly.
Unless you banned him from the bread why would he Think he needed permission to have some?
He was quite Rude to say yuck, that’s just plain rude, but points to him for Trying it.
Hmm, I’m reconsidering a bit, as it is extremely rude to try something someone made and react in that way.
So, go ahead and scold him or whatever for reacting that way, but not for thinking he could try bread you made 🙂
ESH
This is an extremely trivial argument.
The way you write this makes it sound like ESH. He tried to do something nice for you, but also wasted a slice on something he knows he doesn’t like.
And for your part it just kind of sounds like he annoys you in general and you’re looking for things to be irritated about.
I don’t think either of you is a particular AH but it kinda sounds like you don’t actually like him.
Yta. Your husband tried to do something nice for you and got called names as thanks.
NTA for being annoyed at the disruption while you’re studying, especially if you’ve mentioned before that it bothers you. YTA for being mad about a piece of bread, though.
ESH. Are y’all ok? Why are mad??? How has he lived for 30 years and never known banana bread???? How is this about him interrupting you? This took longer than 7 seconds?????
Are y’all ok???
Weird hill to die on. You both got mad over nothing. Time for counseling.
Jeeze, find something real to be annoyed about YTA
YTA. Doesn’t sound like you like him.
ESH why are you even making this if both of you hate it. and i would be annoyed by his reaction too but i also wouldn’t take it personally if it was just one slice. idk.
YTA.
What the actual fuck?
Ughh I wish I had the last 60 seconds of my life back. YTH