I work in a local refinery and a girl runs materials and brings us different places because we’re not allowed to travel by foot.
I added them on Facebook because usually I don’t have my phone and the foreman is the only authorized user and it’s automatic termination to even have it on you without permission but he’s gone. I add the girl that runs our materials on Facebook to contact them.
She comments on a post and my girlfriend thinks it’s like a girl im having something on the side with and adds her and messages her and then she makes friends with her.
She goes on vacation with this girl in some southeast Asian country and treats me like shit ignores me the whole time and dedicates an entire post to how lucky she is to have her in her life with a bunch of photos together and when i told her before she even did that im not ok with it.
Before that a whole 2 months she’s too busy and needs to focus and stay busy because she’s dealing with her depression because of her pre menopausal symptoms and its to the point to me saying, because of how extreme the situation got about respecting boundaries to where im saying“look, fuck that I don’t think so, take that shit down” then she is willing to keep it up over just taking it down and she doesn’t even know this girl. I know she wasn’t cheating or anything because I’m talking to her constantly during that time on video chat.
Like wtf does this mean when your girlfriend does something like that at 42 and she’s completely normal before and never did anything like that ?
It’s been 7 months and the relationship ended over keeping the photos and post with my co worker and I’m not mad about her doing that because you can’t undo it. It’s that she’d keep it over the relationship of 7 years
She told me I had a mental illness for being upset about it when it shouldn’t be a situation in the first place