AITA for feeling jealous that my girlfriend is using Playtomic to find male partners to play padel ?

Me 25M with gf 24F a year now. She loves padel, uses that app to find matches and keeps ending up with dudes for doubles or practice. I get its just a game but the physical stuff high fives chatting after bugs me. Told her lightly she says chill out its like your friends.

Am I wrong ?

14 thoughts on “AITA for feeling jealous that my girlfriend is using Playtomic to find male partners to play padel ?”
  1. YTA, you’re a grown ass 24 year old man and you still want to act jealous over your gf finding other people to play padel with? maybe learn to play paddle if you’re really that insecure about it.

  2. “physical stuff like high fives” lol. YTA

    You’ve got to take a deep breath and manage your anxieties and insecurities. Listen, if she’s trustworthy and it’s a good relationship, then there’s absolutely no reason she shouldn’t play “padel” (=paddeball?) with a man. If she isn’t trustworthy and it’s not a good relationship, then preventing her from doing so isn’t going to fix the problem.

    EDIT Now I know what padel is, my bad, I should have used Google.

    1. Padel is like halfway between pickleball and tennis. You use tennis balls but it’s a wooden racket with holes

  3. Uh oh, someone is insecure about their inadequacies and is taking it out on their partner by being controlling and possessive.

    YTA

    Either grow up or leave that woman alone so she can find happiness.

  4. YTA. You’re going to end up a right piece of work if you don’t learn to get your jealously under control.

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