Okay so my boyfriend and I had plans for Saturday as he is busy all week and I wanted to see him before next week because im busy next week we made these plans on last Saturday it is Wednesday currently where I am. he canceled plans and just told me today because people at his wrestling place asked him if he COULD reff at a upcoming show Saturday yesterday on Tuesday he just told me today and told me in the coldest way that he might not be able to hangout I asked him if he could please stay and he said that its a maybe and that he would have to ask them. he told me that today when he came over for an hour while my friend was over in the coldest way he could of being very blunt about it not a single apology heard. on top of that me my friend and him played were playing uno while he was over my friend sat out a round so she could go wash her face so I could do her lashes when she was out of the room he wasn’t talking to me at all and kept his eyes on his deck the entire time and would not be chatty at all. I asked him if he was upset with me in private because I took him out of the room and he said no. after he left He texted me saying that the reason he was upset was because his mom and him got in a fight. however he is always blaming her on his poor behavior even when he broke up with me a few months ago he said that his mom got in his head which I find kinda crazy because I would never blame and argument with my parents for being a dick.
AITA for this or is it him
What an absolute roller coaster of a post. By the time I got to the end I totally forgot where we started.
I’m gunna take a stab in the dark and go with ESH
He sounds very immature and hot headed. But he’s showing you how little he cares- if he wanted to spend time with you he would make time.
NTA at all, the canceling plans while being extremely cold on top of it is raising multiple red flags. But the real issue here is the fact that even if he has a bad run in with someone else he WILL take it out against you as he his doing here. That’s if he is actually telling the truth, I don’t know him or how he actually is but from what’s given I would run before you mentally drain yourself trying to figure out what you could do better when you weren’t doing anything wrong in the first place.
OMG. PUNCTUATION!!!
NTA, because it shows how much he cares… Not much anyways, but however OP’s story tells us that her bf blames his parents over his behavior which I find immature since he’s an adult, he cancelled their plan rather than his own, idk if it’s kinda selfish or not. But that’s all I have to say.
What makes you think these people are adults? They’re on wrestling teams, playing Uno in bedrooms at each other’s houses, and getting in frequent fights with their parents. They’re teens.
We are adults me and my friend just really like uno