Bare with me, I have trouble explaining things well.
My brother (25) has a history of jumping from girl to girl. As if he feels like he NEEDS to be in a relationship. His longest relationship is approximately 2 years and he was engaged after 6 months. This is a typical occurrence with him when he begins to date someone new. Within six months, he "proposing".
Coming to now, he had recently began dating a girl for a couple months then they broke up and now he’s dating her again. She has three kids herself, I didn’t care on that. But now they’re having kid together and I cannot be happy for him knowing his history. To throw this in quickly, all his life he’s been a pathological liar, it’s like a second nature and we’ve caught him in multiple lies but he always tries to stick to different stories. It’s how he sneaks his way into a girl’s life, acting all mighty and lying throughout.
If this pregnancy was purely an accident, okay but knowing who he is as a person and how he is, I can’t see this being an accident in any way. He cannot keep a job, he currently has no job and is in severe debt to a family member but he acts as if everything is fine in world that no one can touch him.
I just cannot be happy because he doesn’t know how to be an adult despite being 25. So many things get handed to him and now he’s bringing a life into this world and he can’t even look after himself financially.
Am I the asshole?