This is part 2 to my previous post.
I come back to the apartment and ask R if she needs a ride to work. R told me " no she doesn’t feel save with anyone on the roads" that is understandable. People drive stupid in the snow. I said " Okay that’s fine but i’m going to go see S and it’s not my fault if anything happens with her job if shes not with me." R said " that’s fine with me" I then also told R that " what happened this morning was not okay and to never do that to me again or I would not be responsible for my actions" R then proceeded to yell again saying " it’s your fault that this morning happened." I got mad all over again. R continued on saying " if J thought I was over stepping her would have come and got me" no… J knows when I get like that I go for blood. J knew he would have been next. I told them by and left to go see S. About 12 ish I leave to go get a new phone and S comes with me ( yes i’m still on my mothers phone plan…. it’s cheaper) I then come home about 2 ish. The first thing I noticed is that the car has magically left. ( the car allegidly couldn’t leave earlier and roads where worse at this time.) I come up to the door, it’s shut but unlocked. WE LIVE IN THE GHETTO!!!! I came mad again. R and J rabbit Theo was gone along with their dog Raven. I then open their door and the bed is gone. I laugh and call my brother (C) 19M to ask if he knows where they are. C looks at J location and see’s they are at R parents house. keep in mind R job is 15 min from our house… R dad is 45 min from our house on terrible back roads. The moral of the story they drove the 45 min in the winter weather to R dad house instead of the 15 min for her to go to work. I calmed down and had such a weight lifted off my chest. I found out from a friend that R told people that I attacked her for no reason and she no longer felt safe in the house with me. R step mom posted on FB that "her daughter had moved back in to get away from a toxic house" This was quite funny to me. I let the weekend roll by and was quite relaxed as I was home alone P was at his girlfriends house (K) 20 F. I didn’t text them until today. I texted J "to come get there stuff if they where moving out so I could move C in. I also asked them to still send the rent money owed at the first of the month." J didn’t reply and only read it. Both R and J came over about 2 ish today to collect some of there stuff. Never said anything to me. Never apoligized. Acted as if I was never there. I was on alert so I called S for the just in case. Nothing happened but J did tell me that "they would be back tomorrow to get the rest." So reddit AITA???
context R is bipolar and recently got off her meds and I don’t care if they find this…. they probably won’t though. I got more stories if you wanna hear about living with R and other stuff 🙂
Where’s the previous post? Checked your profile and only this one exists. No comments or other posts or anything.
Can you link to part 1?
ESH, but mostly them. You shouldn’t have escalated by saying you wouldn’t be responsible if something happened to her job, but her yelling, blaming you for things you didn’t do, and then moving out while trash-talking you crosses way more lines. At this point, document everything and get locks changed if you can.