Me and my friend (23F) are very close friends and she gave me her hoodie to borrow when it was cold. It is her favorite hoodie. I left that hoodie in my back seat to make sure I returned it to her. When I returned it, she said there was a tiny stain on it and asked me to replace it. She sent me the link and it’s a $80 hoodie. I do not currently have a job because I’m in school so $80 for a hoodie is a lot. :/ I told her I would replace it but she’s been pretty rude about the whole situation when I really do not know how that happened and offered to replace the hoodie. The exact hoodie and color is sold out:(. So I go on depop and find the exact color, brand, and size and ask the seller if it’s the same style of hoodie. The hoodie I found is like new, no issues, barely worn. My friend gets upset that I even went to try to find this secondhand and that she doesn’t want someone else’s hoodie. Which I understand I was just trying to find the same exact thing because that’s what she wanted. I send her links to similar hoodies of the style, color, etc to her to try to help but she got even more annoyed at me. I’m aware this is silly and I feel like I’m in high school right now. I feel like I’m really trying to resolve this and got pretty frustrated as she was still being very rude to me. She tells me she just wants $80 cash. IDK IF IM BEING MEAN, but I do not want to give her $70 cash. She has been so rude to me that I feel like she’s just being petty and wants $80 I offered to buy her a new $80 worth hoodie. I even sent her some from aritizia that were similar. Idk if I’m being an asshole or not but I do NOT understand why she won’t accept my offer of buying her a new $80 hoodie. Idk am I being rude??? I just feel like she’s trying to get $80 out of me right now and doesn’t really care about the hoodie. The fact I just wrote an essay about a hoodie is crazy but plz help because I’m really not trying to be rude I’m genuinely confused why I can’t just buy her a new one???