I bought a house after selling my old house and using almost all my savings to buy a new house outright for my family. My fiance did not contribute to the buy, but wanted to be put on the deed. I did not add her, and now she is upset with me and is holding it against me. She makes it sound like it’s something I was supposed to do and that I don’t trust her. Am I the asshole for not adding her to the deed?
NTA. I’d deeply reconsider being with someone who is already looking to rib you. Be smart.
NTA. If she didn’t contribute anything AND you’re not married, I would not put her on the deed.
NTA- You can put the house in a trust so she can live there, but your children will inherit it.
buddy between this and the dental work debacle last year, i would maybe hesitate before marrying this woman. NTA
NTA obviously this is ridiculous. If you marry her make sure you have a prenup
Do not, I REPEAT DO NOT let her guilt you into putting her on your deed. If she has no stake in the game and you guys marry and possibly split down the line, she will be entitled to something that she put nothing towards and you will be out half a house
There’s no reason her name should be on the deed if she didn’t pay for it. I’m not suggesting anything in terms of her motivations, but I always recommend getting a prenup before marriage. In your case, I would strongly suggest that a prenup specify that you get the house in the event of a divorce.
You’d only be an asshole to yourself if you added her now.
You sold your home to buy another home and she’s bringing nothing to closing? She better be paying rent equal to half the house value THEN talk about adding her
NTA. BTW YOU NEED A SOLID PRE-NUP
This, especially if you have kids already
NTA. You aren’t married, and she didn’t contribute. If it’s only your money, only your name goes on the deed.
Tell her if she gives you half the money you will put her on the deed but not until she’s paid you ALL of her portion up front
NTA
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