I’m M23, my roommate is F20, I recently tried to keep in contact more and check on my roommate when I’m away from home or vice versa since they complain that I kind of drop off the radar when I’m gone for a while, and whenever I do she instead complains that I’m being too pushy for asking once or twice how she’s doing or what she’s been up to for the day and stating that since I have had a hard time being active before when away, she shouldn’t be expected to respond to me when I’m trying to improve on what she’s explicitly complained about before. Sure, she has no obligation to respond, but I feel like she shouldn’t be complaining about me doing exactly what she’s asked of me and then me being worried for her when she’s not been responding for several days. Am I wrong about this?
NTA. She’s playing games, and as just a roommate, you have no obligation to engage in her drama.
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How often do you contact her? Daily? Multiple times daily? Every 3 or 4 days?
I checked on her once or twice a day like she’d asked me to
Back off, and see if she complains again. There’s no right and wrong here, but don’t get swept into head games.