Hello! I’ve been thinking about posting this for a while now. I’m 18 and a cheerleader at my school. Small school there’s like 300 kids and it’s all K-12. Anyways this means there’s not a lot of cheerleaders (there’s 7 of us). So like to help get money for our team we are doing concessions for Jv games. The thing is my mom doesn’t want to do it. She said she’d buy the stuff for it she just won’t help. So I asked why and she said her boyfriend is coming down to visit. And don’t get me wrong he’s a great guy so I don’t mind at all, I actually asked her if they can both come watch me cheer. She said no cause she didn’t want people to stare and judge. The thing about my mom is she has MAJOR anxiety and I’ve dealt with it for years and I don’t judge her for it. But it’s been getting annoying the past few years. She hasn’t gone to many games she also just doesn’t t really go out when I try to get her to go. She worried people will stare cause her and my dad got divorced in 2024 but they separated 2022 (my dad dragged it out). What I’m trying to say is she can come to the game with her boyfriend and enjoy it. Even if my dad shows up he wouldn’t make a huge deal about it but she is still worried about being judged. I know I sound mean but since my
Freshmen year I’ve been dealing with my mom going to my games at all she only showed up