I want to see if reddit thinks I’m wrong or if I have the right to choose and prioritise my girlfriend over my family as much as it hurts me.
Story time: I’ll try to keep it short
I, 22F love this girl 24F, been together for 2 years, family knows about us but doesn’t like it, we try to ignore it but they always bring it up every time they can and we argue about it. They’re super conservative, religious and I respect it so I don’t tell them about us at all just to keep the peace. December last year comes and we decide to go on a short holiday for sporting purpose but I don’t tell them. Long story short, they find out 3 weeks later and confront me and a whole huge argument starts and they figure that I travelled with my gf so it makes it worse. They gave an ultimatum to choose them or her. I want to choose my happiness and where I find love but at the same time it hurts a lot to do that, it feels that I’m being selfish, even tho I care about them and I show it. There is no chance of them changing, no chance of me going back to pretending just to fit it to make them happy. So AITAH?