I (M44) share a Frenchie with my ex. (of whom we are still amicable friends). My current girlfriend (F39) wants me to end the arrangement.
We are in a long distance relationship. She lives an hour and a half away. One morning, during a visit, the ex dropped to dog off and it turned into a situation. I got frustrated because the ex called while we were still in bed to tell me she was here. When we finally got up the dog was barking at the new girlfriend, so she left.
We’ve discussed how it made her feel and that she couldn’t be with someone who still gives this energy toward an ex. I’ve explained that the ex and i were friends before and know that we should have remained friends.