Went on first date with a man over the weekend and it went well except that he asked me about my thoughts on "being physical" which I found just too soon and kinda weird. I did say I felt that was too soon to talk about and like it’s not something I’m worried about, most people like sex.
He has made has brought up sex by text twice today in jokey ways. Last time I was going to the pool and he said have fun getting we—-playing in the in the pool. I found it so ick.
I am otherwise interested him. Is there a good way to tell him to knock it off on the sex talk or is this just a sign that he’s a lost cause horndog.
We are in our 40s.
Dude, is the pool that shallow? There are 8 billion humans, 4 are men. Spin the wheel again.
If only 4 are men, that doesn’t leave much to pick from.
But those 4 dudes …. With 7,999,999,996 women hanging about … they best go hide.
He just wants to sleep with you and then disappear.
Send him a link to this post and he’ll get the idea
Spray him with water and say “Aht Aht!”
Chronologically, 40s.
Mentally, 15
“Hey dude, I like you, but all the sex jokes are too much for me right now”
Thanks, men are generally more direct and I would definitely appreciate someone saying that to me. If he continues making those jokes, she also knows enough and should cut her losses. Some people like such jokes, some don’t
that’d be perfectly effective and safe to use on me. It’s how I prefer my communication.
I feel like I have minmaxed prefering direct communication; being a man, having autism while being Dutch :’)
This is the perfect answer. Either he will get it and stop, or be an asshole and she can find out quickly.
You’re both in your 40s but neither of you are capable of communicating with each other like adults?
No your not interested in him. He’s showing you his whole ass out and your are not liking it.
You don’t have to be horny to be saying dirty jokes. If that’s his sense of humor, your not gonna like it when pops dirty jokes in non-sexy situations.