There’s a woman who i’ve been wanting to meet for months now was super excited to meet her but couldnt cause she lived in another state.
Now I finally have the opportunity to visit the city she lives in but she wont be available this weekend. What do I do? For the past few months ive been imagining what it would be like to meet her in person because she’s bad as hell but unfortunately we cant meet cause shes traveling. What do I do?
stay longer and try again
Another girl. That’s what you do.
Bro, she’s just leading you on man. She clearly doesn’t want to meet you in person.
Move on
You dodged a bullet. Move on.
Was her traveling planned before hand and she told you about it, or was it extremely sudden and right after you mentioned being able to go?
If it was planned beforehand, then that sucks bro, but life happens like that.
If it was extremely sudden with 0 mention before you brought up coming to visit? She’s wasting your time and just likes the attention/validation you give her, block and move on.
If a girl is into you, she’ll manipulate time and space to see you. If she isn’t, you’ll never meet.
don’t build emotional attachments to people you’ve never met, it’s always gonna be messy
On a scale from 1-10 how certain are you that you aren’t getting catfished!
Dont visit the city this week. Plan a time for the two of you to meet.
Stop having fantasies with unrealistic expectations.
Stop putting so much of your time and energy into women who aren’t even in your area.
Stop whining.
If she’s actually into you, just reschedule your trip or visit again.
If you want to meet her that badly, why didnt you go there before?
Change your criteria. Maybe a 60 miles radius would be more rational.
++man I have always had the most luck with people in my area, how can you really get to know someone just a few days at a time? Plus dating is a numbers game. Gotta have quite a few working.
Gym. Bar. Another girl. Chin up king.
If she was really interested, you’d have met by now. Don’t let your dick drag you into a tepid long distance relationship.