Legit question, I am working towards a career and I have a bad situation. I am living at home to save money and totaled my car 3 months ago so I have a hand me down car. Outside of that, I am just your average joe.
Also to add to the list, I am someone who wants sex after I have been dating a women for at least a few dates. So how do you communicate that to a woman of why I dont move very aggressively in dating
You’d be surprised how many women I banged in my moms basement 😂
Did you let them go?
Not many tbh, best to focus on the grind for now and get back to dating when you’re closer to your goals
I feel like this depends a bit of how old you are. I’d be a lot more understanding of a 22 year old in that situation than a 32 or 42 year old. I agree with the other commenter that now’s probably a good time to focus on getting your feet under you rather than on dating
What car?
Focus on creating stability and security in your life. That requires hard work, which demands sacrifice and rn the sacrifice is gonna be the idealized play boy lifestyle you are describing.
Otherwise you’re lowkey just a dude pressuring women for sex who is down on his luck. Ykwim?
If you’re focused on a specific type, find one who likes a fixer upper. If you don’t want to be a fixer upper, set aside any preconceived notions of “type”. Just be yourself, be honest about your current situation, and be open and realistic about what your long term plan is. The type of woman you want is the one who will remain by your side after you’re honest with her.
Im going to be really honest with you, there aren’t that many women that fit that description.
Are you looking for a trophy wife or someone you are compatible with?
Most females look for chemistry and compatibility.
Don’t overthink it.
When I met the woman who became my wife I was a college student, almost failing a math class, and driving a car that you couldn’t open the driver’s side doors on because someone sideswiped it. To get money for a new car I was working as a male stripper and doing landscaping for two Russian guys who were possibly Bratva back in the old country. Don’t sell yourself short, brother.
A man who is actively working towards his dreams can be attractive even if he is in a tough spot temporarily.
A guy who lives at home because he wants to avoid working and be lazy, and lets his mom do his laundry that would not be attractive.
If you live at home when dating make sure you communicate you have goals and what you’re working on.
Oh junket your no posting New Year’s resolution is going great I see. Two posts in just as many hours
Worry less about what women want and more about what you want, then realize whether or not you need to improve your situation to get what you want. Women are not a monolith.