I made a realization today while watching one of the VTubers I enjoy having in the background.
My struggles with dating have all been because I’ve been chasing the wrong demographic. I don’t mesh with normal standard women who have their shit together and know how to take a shower.
The terminally online girl failures, the ones who have shrines to their favorite husbando. The ones with moldy sheets, questionable hygiene and lack of self care.
My people.
Those are the ones I must seek out on my quest for love.
The attributes I find most attractive (never leaving the house) also makes it a struggle to find them. Men who also have this as your type, how did you find your feral woman creature?
have you tried the internet
What?? Terminally online women are… Online?!
But where? I admit I struggle to make friends online or offline. I’ve joined discord channels before and whatnot, but I’m unsure how to go from being one name in a list of hundreds to socializing.
r/ForeverAloneDating r/IntrovertsChat r/NerdDating r/InternetFriends
but realistically also
r/r4r r/R4R30Plus
I am chronically online but I’m 27 and married. Reddit is the best place to find us!!
It’s really just being in varied spaces and randomly striking up conversations. I’ve lost count of how many friends I made online by accident.
>What about the apps?
Tend to be women that *aren’t* online as much.
Chronically online, 24 and married. Similar but met mine playing online video games. CS:GO specifically lol
Though I must say, I/we do practice personal hygiene a bit better than described above lmao
I assume you’re being sarcastic if you’re calling them “failures”…
That’s apparently what they’re called in certain communities.
It’s official jargon, based on sarcasm but also if someone doesn’t understand the term it means they’re not part of the group I’m looking for.
Start subbing to the reddits for those husband dating simulator gatcha games and make friends.
Hadn’t thought of that, but hanging around the Love and Deepspace subreddit is a great idea.
Most comic cons but wear a gas mask because they are ogres IRL
Are you telling me my chronic sinusitis is actually a sign from fate?
I’m half of these things and I’m a single woman with chronically bad luck in dating lol. Right now I’m in a ‘woe is me” I’m gonna die alone. People always tell me I’m above average in looks and I’m smart but here I am still single so….