WIBTA
This is not like going to be a big fight or anything, but I am ticked off that my boyfriend of two months was using my phone and then looked at my reddit username, now is creeping everything I posted and commented-
I guess I didnt tell him not to do that, but can we ssay that it’s at least a little bit of a thing that we don’t look at our friends usernames? I had plenty opportunity to do the same to him but didnt.
Have asked him to stop looking but he wont 🙁
Am I wrong to be ticked off?
NTA, you can make your account private though so they can’t see your prior post history.
That can be bypassed. Go to their profile and hit the search button in the corner, hit enter.
Unfortunately thats really easy to get around. You just do a blank search or something in their post history and it all comes up
He isn’t the asshole for looking, but he is the asshole for doing so after you asked him to stop. I would have no problem with my partner looking through my social media, but you made your boundry clear and he is not respecting that.
Kind of weird that what you’re willing to post on public forums is a secret from your so, isn’t it?
Sometimes youre ashamed of the reddit arguements you get into 💔
Yeah I mean at this point I actually do regret posting because the post itself might be my overreaction – oh well. But he knows I posted. I was kind of like, let’s see what the reddit community thinks.
Nta, me and my bf are aware we both are on reddit and both know eachothers names. We have nothing to hide, we both know we can ask or check if for some reason we sus eachother but ive never had to ever worry about that and neither has he (we consider eachother like easter eggs when we find eachother in the wild lmao). Its not hard to just respect your partner having their own life, but to be under a microscope like you NEED to be watched does not feel great nor healthy. If there are other relationship problems that need to be spoken about trust wise i think this is the best time to speak up
I think the issue is that he sounds insecure and has trust issues. Has he discussed having trust issues with you and are you doing said things? Or is this completely out of the blue, you need to communicate with him